All of my friends keep telling me to kiss my boyfriend, but we’re both too shy. What should I do to initiate the first kiss? – Question asked by Pamela. Pamela, Don’t bother about what others tell you to do. Shy or not shy, a guy can’t resist kissing the soft lips of a girl. It’s bound to happen in short time. Don’t worry about it. The first kiss is pretty special, especially when you are truly in love. So don’t ruin it by “pressurizing” yourself.

Since you are shy, it’s best to get your boyfriend to initiate it. If you want to make that “first kiss” happen, you can create the settings for it. Here’s what you can do to initiate the first kiss with your boyfriend. We all have something we’ve never told anyone. Something “awe inspiring” that happened to you, some deep feeling you have or something really intimate experience. Share this with your boyfriend, and tell him that he is the first person you have mentioned this to.

There nothing like two glasses of champagne, or wine, to get romantic impulses flowing without inhibition. Go out on a romantic dinner, order a bottle of wine or champagne, and celebrate your relationship. The spirit is bound to get him relaxed and jolly. On the way home he is bound to kiss you; believe me you can kiss a lot better when you are feeling relaxed. A little spirit is the perfect antidote for shyness. Most guys will get the hint, especially if you’ve been talking some romantic stuff.

You can get him something that he has always wanted. Present it to him when you are alone somewhere, preferably at home. Say something romantic like “this is for the true love of my life” while you give him the gift. If he has a romantic bone in him, he will kiss you for sure. Frankly, you don’t have to worry about kissing at all. It just happens when the moment is right. It’s bound to happen anyway, and it’s fun to anticipate.